I WANT IT

A free masterclass for women who feel invisible in their own lives — and are ready to find out why and finally do something about it.

You're the person everyone relies on.

You organize everything. Anticipate every problem. Make sure everyone around you is okay.

And you are exhausted in a way sleep doesn't fix.

You feel invisible — even in rooms full of people who love you.

You feel a quiet resentment you can't quite explain. Because you know nobody forced you. You just never stopped saying yes.

You stand in the middle of your beautiful life and can't answer one simple question:

What do I actually want?

You've said "whatever you want" so many times you're not sure you know anymore.

You didn't lose yourself in a dramatic crisis.

You lost yourself in a thousand small accommodations. Every "I'm fine." Every "it doesn't matter to me." Every time you went along with it when every part of you didn't want to.

It added up.

And now you're coordinating your life. Not living it.

You're not broken. You're not ungrateful. You just forgot to include yourself. And that stops now.

After you watch —
here's what changes:

→ You'll understand exactly why you lost yourself

and why it was never a character flaw.

→ You'll discover why this pattern keeps running

even when you understand it. Even when you've tried to change it. Even after years of personal growth work.

→ You'll understand exactly where these patterns came from

Not in a vague therapy-adjacent way. Specifically. Precisely. In a way that finally makes sense. And you'll know exactly what it takes to clear them.

And if you've already done the work — read the books, gone to therapy, tried to change — and something keeps pulling you back?

This masterclass shows you exactly what that is. And what to do about it once and for all.

You'll leave with one specific practice you can use today — before you finish watching — that starts bringing you back to yourself.

And you'll understand the complete journey — from healing the story that held you back to wanting the life that's been waiting for you.

LET'S BE CLEAR

Let's be clear about what this masterclass is. And what it isn't.

It’s not therapy. This is behavioral. Specific. Direct. No emotional excavation required.

Not a confidence course. You're not lacking confidence. You've been trained out of considering yourself. That's different. And it's fixable.

Not about burning it down. You love your life. You love your people. You just want to actually live it.

Not another feel-good pep talk. You leave knowing exactly what to do differently — not just feeling better about doing nothing.

Not another thing to manage. Less than one hour. One shift. Something you can use before the day is over.

Not deep trauma excavation. This is about understanding your patterns clearly and precisely — not reliving the past. You don't need to go back to go forward.

This IS about two things.

First — understanding exactly where the pattern came from. The stories formed early. The conditioning wired in. The beliefs about love and worthiness and wanting that have been running your life from underneath. Named precisely. Without judgment. Without reliving the past.

Second — what to do about it. In real time. Starting today. One embarrassingly small honest choice at a time.

Together — that's the complete journey. From understanding the story that held you back to wanting the life that's been waiting for you.

In this free masterclass you'll discover:

Why capable women disappear inside beautiful lives.

And why it has nothing to do with gratitude, confidence, or hormones.

The thousand accommodations.

The small daily moments where you give yourself away without even realizing it — and why you do it automatically without even noticing.

Why that quiet resentment isn't a character flaw.

It's information. It's your signal. And it's pointing somewhere important.

Why understanding the pattern isn't enough to change it.

You've read the books. You understand yourself. And you still keep doing it. That's not a weakness. That's what happens when something deeper is running underneath.

Where the pattern actually comes from.

The stories formed early — about earning love, about wanting less, about making yourself manageable — don't disappear when you succeed. They just get better dressed. And until you understand exactly where they came from and how they were wired in — they keep running your life from underneath. This is the work that actually changes the pattern. For good.

What it looks like to come back.

Not dramatically. Not by blowing up your life. By starting embarrassingly small. Saying what you want out loud. One true answer at a time.

The complete journey.

From healing the story that held you back to wanting the life that's been waiting for you.

This isn't insight. This is a behavior change. And it starts with understanding where you've been.

I'M KARENA.

National bestselling author. Lawyer. Creator of I WANT IT and Rise Above the Story®. And the woman who lived the extreme version of everything you just read about yourself.

I didn't learn this only from research. I learned it from a life that required me to put everyone else first from the very beginning.

I grew up in poverty. My father went to federal prison when I was twelve. I raised my siblings. When my mother died at forty-four — I adopted my brother. He was nine.

I spent my entire childhood wanting nothing for myself. Because there was no room for it.

And then I carried that pattern into every relationship, every success, every beautiful thing I built.

Until the year my book became a national bestseller. I was 51. I had everything I had ever worked for.

And I felt completely invisible inside all of it.

One day my husband asked me to go fishing. He loves fishing. I had been deep sea fishing with him ten times. Every single time I hated every single second of it. And I kept going. Because that's what I did. I accommodated.

This time I said — I can't go anymore. I don't want to.

He went. I stayed. And for the first time in years I spent a whole day doing exactly what I wanted.

The freedom I felt from one honest decision was enormous.

That was the beginning of I WANT IT.

I spent years researching why this happens — drawing from the work of Gabor Maté, Bessel van der Kolk, and the science of how the brain forms and holds these patterns. The lived experience and the research together — that's what makes this work different.

Think of me as your tour guide. I went first. So you know the way out.

HERE’S WHAT WOMEN ARE SAYING:

"I am what defines me."

Karena reminded me that my story is not what defines me. I am what defines me.

"It's a compass"

It’s a compass that will guide you out of the darkest woods of your own history.

"melds neuroscience with a therapeutic approach."

Karena beautifully melds the neuroscience of the way our body and minds process trauma with a therapeutic approach, offering journaling entries along the way to fit in true self reflection.

"Everything I’ve lived through is part of my story"

For the first time, I realized that everything I’ve lived through is part of my story — not the end of it.

You’ve been last on your list long enough.

The women who watch this don’t just feel better. They come back.

To themselves. To their lives. To what they actually want.

Click below and watch instantly.

It’s free. It’s yours. And it’s waiting.

I WANT IT — WATCH NOW

You didn’t lose yourself in a dramatic crisis.